Uck. I know this must be so hard. The dust will settle in a few days, but I would be prepared to have K for awhile. Your H doesn't seem like the kind of guy that can multitask well.

I think its good that you told MIL you need your space. You don't need to be involved or know about thier drama. It will only hurt you.

I am telling you...it may take a few months but the winds are going to change. Our H's are so alike. Commitment and responsibility are really overwhelming to them. They can't handle it and will flee when things get hard.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!