wii, Gym Lady is absolutely great! It's unbelievable what a "normal" woman is like. It's going very well, and she feels exactly like I do, which is great.
Now the "UH-OH" Portion of the post: My attorney wants to depose both STBX and "Smarmyscumbaglawyerbossparamourpieceofsh*t". I will need to be present.
He thinks that this may make her more reasonable in her demands, but it will be tough because I'll have to be in the courtroom. Part of me thinks that the ONLY way to begin to make her reasonable is to take her on head on, which I have NEVER done. The attorney thinks if the judge hears how she was carrying on while I was in Iraq, the Jeep, the basement, etc. that the judge may award her less or NO alimony. We'll see.
I have not shared with my attorney my trying to "permanently check out" on prescrip meds back in 06. If he moves forward with this, I would imagine I'll have to share this with him. I can see Gym Lady being subpoenaed at some point and having THAT come out, although I was already in mediation when I started seeing her, so it may not be relevent, but my bit*h of a STBX may really want to go to war.
When is a good time to tell your current love interest that you tried to check out becaue of the misery your former spouse caused you? As one poster onece told me "tell her when she shares her PAP smear results with you" Hmm.....
