Geez, Lost. I wondered how long it would take before her parents came to her side. It's what parents do. Using the words they did at least makes you realize they are going "legal" now so you can be careful.
The lying.....saying your mom changes the sheets, not allowing the car for the kids, etc. These are the things that will haunt her eventually. I had a hard time sleeping at night because of the things I said/did. I still do once in a while. Lying and the immoral things she did/is saying will always be with her. I feel bad for you, but I feel very sorry for her. You haven't lost what she is losing. And, since it looks like she won't face them, and you will end up divorcing, she will forever live with what she has done to herself and her life.
