Thanks guys. I know I brought problems to the table, but I don't think any of them were worthy of being walked out on. I was pretty much the ideal wife (save for some self-esteem issues and depression over some health problems). My H has told me there isn't anything I could do different to make him feel more comfortable around me (yeah, I was a numbnuts for even asking THAT question). He has told me more than once, it's not you, it's me. So while I do try to be happy and positive around him, I think I mostly do it to just to try to get him to relax and let his guard down, more so than I am trying to be the better option, because clearly I cannot compete with Ms. 23-year old.
