I just wish I could turn the clock back as it is all so clear to me know. I just wish she had told me of her concerns 2 to 3 years ago, as that would have been the wake up call I needed.
Well, yeah -- of course. YOU AREN'T A MIND-READER. She had an obligation to sit you down and express her grave concerns (if they were, in fact, that grave.). I suspect they weren't, and this is all just so much re-writing of marital history.
