I've moved here from MLC

[Thinker]

"I wish you would meet someone so you'll be taken care of and I don't have to worry about you."

Amazing...more script.

I hate to smile, but I am a bit because I got exactly this line - I think we all must have.

In the early days of her EA, when it was all new and secret and she was fantasizing about it becoming a new perfect life for her, my W said something like "I wish you would have an affair, because that would take the pressure off of me" Not yet knowing what was going on (only that she had been acting weird and distant) I was floored.

Now, after seeing the examples of the same thing here and again and again elsewhere in the forums, I just shake my head and laugh (a bit).

I am sorry for the situation again. You're doing a great job. and I though you would appreciate yet another example that show's you are not alone.