Letting go and taking a left off last laugh lane

[AliSuddenly]

WTF!??

I'm confued.. you say he has taken out a loan on "this account" - what a joint account? And how has he done that?? He may have had to that, if he is broke, by having to get a secured loan (or homeowners loan) in which case he would have to apply on the account you have your mortgage? Is that what he has done?? Sorry, I dont get it.. and they arent asking you for £350 surely, thats his monthly payment?

Just contact him, email him saying you say it, wondered if he realised it was abuot to take £350 out but seems he hasnt put the equivelent in?

Dont take it personally, just be mater of fact about it.. he's not doing it to you, he's just getting on with his life and being pretty self centred not realising that these little actions are very hurtful to the woman he so cruelly dumped ! You know? He's oblvious.

I sometimes wish all this hurt and disappointment and pain would rain down on our ex's one day, so they know how it feels. BUt guess thats a pretty evil thing to wish and I dont want karma to steal up to me in the night and shave my eyebrows off.. metaphorically speaking.

Al xxx