WAW New life with OM

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Met with another attorney and she gave me some suggestions on what to do while W is with OM. I’m thinking about filing for a legal separation so I can protect my assets and the children. The attorney also said if I can get my W to work with me, we can save $$$ on the cost of the filing.

Does anyone have any words of wisdom on how I can approach WAW about working on this together? Should I come up with a draft and present it to her? I would think meeting in person would be best. I don’t want to sound like I’m pursuing or make W feel like I’m talking about our M or R, I just want to get her to work on a contract so we know where we are in this limbo land.

I still want to work on M and I know until OM is out of the picture I need to be patient. I’m trying very hard to be patient but also don’t want to lose any assets or the kids during this time. Still doing lots of GAL and walking which helps so much!