My thoughts are that your H is prob. addicted to the OW. I think a lot of our WAS are addicts or have addict tendencies. My H was a sober alcoholic, but had a string of addictions like triathlons, running, etc. Most of them did last about 2 years, so if my prediction is true...time is running out. The OW in my case is married 3 times, and her children are really messed up. Supposedly her 15 year old D is just the nastiest child ever. On paper these things don't make sense, b/c I don't think they're thinking. I think a lot of addictions like these are negative. My H is going through bankruptcy and foreclosure. I look at it that is going to put a strain on their fairy tale. I would never ask someone I loved to break up their family and go through that kind of stuff, so I don't think it's love. I really don't.
