Girlfriend, buckle up and hang on. This is when the real tests start, lol. You have the right attitude, all of the stuff that he is processing is his stuff.. it isn't about you. He is going to have to work thru it all. It takes time and lots of loving patience on your part. The good thing is that you will find lots of good steps from him inbetween, but that also makes it hard to deal when suddenly they rocket backwards. Hmmm, H and I are still doing some of that. Not as much as a few months ago, but there is still some occasional "drama".
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
