Divorce is Hell.....Custody too

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Thanks all, I had a really hard day Fri and picked a lawyer I had seen way back in the beginning, a year ago.

H texted me that D9 is getting to be a spoiled brat, wants to "work with me" to parent her. I didn't answer. Then got another text that said he wants to share the kids no matter what, but don't think because you are the mom or because I left that you will get sole custody!

These are the kinds of threats I get from him on a regular basis. He thinks he can control me, and not knowing what my plans are are killing him. I will NEVER try for anything other than what is fair, and 50/50 is fair to the kids. I have told him that a million times, I won't waste the breath anymore. I have morals and a conscience, I won't take him to the cleaners, even if he had anything to take.....