Trusting, Until your xh hits bottom, he will not look within. For those who are having issues growing up, it's always someone else's fault if things do not go their way. In your case, your xh thinks that you took all of his money. He's not of his right mind or he would see that his lifestyle/behavior created his mess, i.e., no money in the pocket.
He's a very angry man right now and he may be one of them that never grows up completely. I wouldn't pay his comment about hating you and never wanting to lay eyes on you again w/a grain of salt. Some day, those words will come back to haunt him and most likely bite him on the @ss. The old saying "be careful what you wish for" is very true.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
