I vote for the black skirt, white blouse, red sweater draped over your shoulders, & red peep toe pumps. You'll feel & look like a million bucks. More important than his reaction, I think, is how you feel.
Good Luck
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.