Mel, I hope your doing ok. I can't imagine how painful it was for you to be in that situation. I have often thought about what I would do if something like that actually happened to me. I figured I would be in jail or kicking the #%$% out of her. OK I prob wouldn't but I know I wouldn't be able to stop from making a scene. I have to commend you on holding it together. You have been there for him and the offer is on the table for him and you set your boundries. That is all that you can do. It will be his choice to take it or not. If he doesn't than calls you for something just say sorry I'm busy or something. He turned down your offer to help so he can get help from someone else if he needs something.
You did fine so don't beat yourself up.
Let me know how it's going.
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08
OK I prob wouldn't but I know I wouldn't be able to stop from making a scene. I have to commend you on holding it together. You have been there for him and the offer is on the table for him and you set your boundries. That is all that you can do. It will be his choice to take it or not. If he doesn't than calls you for something just say sorry I'm busy or something. He turned down your offer to help so he can get help from someone else if he needs something.
