Just keep swimming...PH #5

[pearlharbr]

I got the furnace fixed today. Found a repair guy and he cleaned the pilot, replaced a part, and for $100 I was back in the heat. Yay!

xBF texted at 4 to ask if I got it fixed. Exchanged a few messages about repair guy and what was wrong.

So I was contemplating JD's suggestion of just laying it all on the line and telling xBF what I expect to even consider giving him a second chance (OW completely gone, total transparency, financial settlement agreed on and in writing). I was also thinking about snooping in his email to see if he's still in contact with OW. Then I had a thought about testing his veracity.

I could stop by bowling league on Wednesday to see if she's there. If so, he is still lying about her and obviously not willing to do "whatever it takes" to reconcile. Plus it has the added benefit of showing his coworkers that I know what's going on so they will stop pitying me. The down side is that it shows him I'm checking up on him before I have committed to trying to save the R and I feel like it's giving up some power. At this point it is still about having the upper hand for me.

Still waiting for a response from my tactician Gucci.