I know how we shouldn't act on emotions but, sometimes it is so hard to not do.
You need to take hold of yourself. Keep in mind that this extreme pain is only temporary. This is a mourning that you are going through. In time you will heal.
If you can't afford that place by yourself then move. Pray and ask God to give you peace over this matter. And, wisdom. He will carry you through this. He has carried me.
I feel sorry for her for she is turning to the wrong people for escape . She will be hurt.
I have been a waw not because I had another man but, because my husband simply doesn't love me.It hurts to be treated that way.
Your wife is so confused.You work on getting yourself better. She is responsible for her own actions.I feel differently. She deserved to hear about what she is doing.
Take care and I pray that thing will get better for you.