"this morning I put my arms round W 5 mins before the alarm goes off to give her further reassurance and her reaction was "Get off me I'm trying to sleep"
Now is she still showing me the way or am I just a DAM who doesn't get it."
You answer the question.
Remember.. it does not have to be "all" the time. Just the "right" time.
How many times have you woke her up.. to "Do Work"? Is this a reasonable "reaction" from her?
You could have said.. "You are silly.. I just wanted to hold you close."
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
