Alison, that is really good therapy...you need to get it out and over with and move on...no sense in holding it in...it does more harm...trust me, I know...

I wish you happiness and peace, whatever happens...remember, when God closes one door, somewhere he opens a window...and what MAY seem inconceivably sad, may, in retrospect, be the thing that sets you free...

Hugs,
Valentine

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller