It's Complicated! Part 4

[glamgirl]

Thanks TL and Peace for stopping by.

H came over on Sunday to help with the kids. I fixed him some breakfast. We had sex and a steamy shower before I went to work. It was nice.

H said that he missed some doses of his AD's. You think, that is why he was so nasty. Next time I will just say h have you taken your meds. I can't remind him to take his meds daily, but it does throw him off emotionally when he skips a dose.

He did say something about me enjoying my time away from him and that would be missed if he moved back. I said h that is not true. I said maybe it's you that is enjoying your freedom. He says is this what you call freedom?

Then he made some mention about Glam it's too bad that you are a morning person and I am a night person. That has always been an issue for us. I just said something about it's hard to be a night person when you work 8-5 and the kids need to go to school.

He fails to recognize that when he had a normal 9-5 job that we did do nicely. We even carpooled to work. When he had his own business of course he could work the hours he wanted and now he has a job working from home with some travel, so he can work the hours he likes.

It feels like he is putting up roadblocks to our M and him moving home. It's almost like he has to justify staying away. This is the part that makes it so discouraging. What is reality here? Does he really not see himself ever coming home?