Could you take a look at my thread if you have the time -I am currently looking for male feedback on my H. WAH2 in sep now what?
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I would agree with AJ, I have heard the same from my H for three years. I actually added it up approx, 300 times I have heard the word D. I do believe that when a man wants out he goes. NO turning back. My H has walked out on previous R without a single second thought or turn around. With me, he keeps saying it, he has left and keeps coming back. Today he told me that the fact he keeps coming back and trying to work things out must tell me how he feels. I really do get that but there is more to a R than just not really leaving it. I do think that there reasons to be cautiously optimistic. I really don't read any signs that he wants to leave or be without you for whatever reason. I would ask you to be honest with yourself about what you want so you can be clearer with him when the time comes. You can't judge everything by every little sign. Keep up DBing, have hope, believe in the best outcome and look forward. Post your doubts here for support and venting. We will not let you down.
