Both focused on the same goals!

[rjd5974]

This time last year, she probably would have gone ahead and done what she wanted without even asking me what I thought. That would have lead into a fight and more resentment on both of our parts.

What will you do when at some point in the future she does do something without asking you that annoys you? And you know it will happen eventually. How will you handle it with your new solution oriented way of being? How will she react when you do something that upsets her? I'm not trying to be negative...just putting some thoughts out there. How will you keep the positivity going?