I have consulted a lawyer. We pretty much agee on everything so we are trying to go an easier and cheaper route through something like mediation or a parallegal. I have this packet of stuff we need to get decided and filled out so that we can decide which is the best way to procede. If we have no disagreement, then we can do it much cheaper without both going out and getting lawyers. We are selling our house, won't make any money off of it. We don't have a substantial savings. The only thing we could really disagree about is custody issues, but there is not a problem there so far. There may be a problem when I try to put in the clause about no overnight guests when the kids are present, but I hope not.
I hate that we are done, but if you read the whole situation I think you will see why I feel that I have to be protected legally. He is acting totally irrational and exposed my d3 to the ow, who he claims in not an affair, but he is serious about, but they haven't had sex... um, yeah, not acting sane. Then the next day he's not serious about her, and why do we need to do something legal?? This is insane.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
