Think about the papers makes me ill. I don't want to pass my kids back and forth like they are some type of object to split between us. I want them to have a family.
This doesn't sound to me like your done. I am not caught up with your situation, I'm sorry. What do you mean by tomorrow your working on D papers. Are you filing? Do you have a lawyer?
I'm about 6 or 7 months into a D right now. I can try to help if you like.