go somewhere while she is getting her stuff. upstairs in the bathroom taking a grand pooh, i don't care, but let her get her stuff and get out with minimal contact. or just sit in front of the tv and watch it. or cook supper with your daughter. i hope the kitchen is too small for the three of you. take a bath. mow the yard. run to the store and leave your D there. really, not a great idea, but is an option. but don't be available to converse with her while she is there. she draws you in with innocent enough talk. then she asks if you are okay. you are honest. then she gets pissy. she comes there wanting to go off on you and prods you into sending her off. it's crazy, but it's what it is. don't be there to bite.
melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
