Sorry, but I dont like the sound of the outfits, esepcially the black.. it is said that we wear black when we lack confidence. It also sounds like quite a 'heartless' outfit, you know? Business like.
Why not just be yourself, wear something comfortable colourful and pretty. Do a 180.. do you know what kind of clothes he liked you in or would have liked you to wear when you were together? How about more feminine, a dress maybe? I dont mean dress up like a date,.. but if you present a wall of defensiveness and hide behind a ball-breaking outfit, you will put him on the defensive as soon as you walk in the room. I vote for soft and pretty and like you are out for a nice day out, not wearing a suit of 'armour'. How about it?
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
