I'm so proud of you and very happy you've been able to come to this realization before things progressed.
You do have choices and you are responsible for your actions. I've had to learn that too and I know how difficult it is to grasp. We'll all figure it out when it is our time to understand things.
It is your time now. I'm looking forward to seeing you move forward and grow.
Your H is a lucky man b/c you've been able to work on yourself in time to help salvage your M.
