Ps. I have to agree with MsM My wife hates it if I check up on her. She takes it as an insult that I don't think she can take care of herself. Also I can now recognize the type of stuff that Puppy and others talk about. She lost respect of me some time ago and it shows. I know I recoginized we wer having trouble in our relationship and I would cave in a lot of arguments. It's been worse since seperation until I knew I had a settlement. With me it was fear of losing my time with daughter made me fold to her. Maybe you shouldn't apologize so quickly next argument.
