Am I doing the right thing?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

: )

I like you.

I'm all in for the long haul.

I'm going to use that on you when you need a 2x4. : )

I brought up the enabling because that is what my C said I am doing and she said I should put her in crisis to force her hand and that is diametrically opposed to everything that I have read so I was looking for reassurance

Find out if your C is familiar with DB or DR. Divorce Busting, Divorce Remedy, if not...then yeah the C is going to say you are enabling. Already did in fact.

I also know this is going to be the hardest f*cking thing I'll ever do in my life.

Let's hope so. There really are worse things, but right now this is the worst. knowing and doing, man we are here when things get really tough.

I deffinately think you have the anger to do this. Don't hit her with it. Vent here. Please don't include friends or family.

And seriously, your sitch sounds eerily familar.

Divorce Busting has a great site on Face Book, you should become a fan.