It still amazes me how they all act alike. Last year before I laid down the boundary H asked "Can I use your washing machine?" I wasn't DBing very well and I reacted with hurt feelings and tears.

You do indeed sound very detached and I'm sure your W is starting to squirm inside.

I hope she makes the right choice.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10