Drawing a line and grabbing the seeds!

[cire2]

I'm at my wits end here. I love this woman and yet I seem to revert back to some old ways. I've been insecure and not trusting.

This is the GF that I was living with since november and she moved out a couple weeks ago. I have been given the opportunity multiple times to show her changes in me, but I end up screwing it up. She now says there's no trust left and she can never get it back.

Once again I feel the need to pursue and talk but when I spoke with her earlier she got very emotional. She went from tears to anger quite quickly, saying to me that we were done and she wouldn't put herself through that anymore, and why would or should she trust me?

I feel as though i'm at square one on this site again even though... arrrgh!

Can I get some advice here? Since i'm immersed in this i'm probably not thinking clearly.

Should I avoid contact? She had stated she couldn't see changes that would help with trusting if we didn't see each other, but she doesn't want to see me also.

I really need some help with the DB 101 or basics since I seem to be floundering.

cire