I cant quite believe she is even emailing you asking for her $275 so 'we can be done with it' - so why even ask/chase yuo for it??? Is she so desperate for a few hundred dollars? Sheesh, me and my ex have all kinds of sums of money between us unnacounted for since we split (mainly his!) and for the year before as neither of us were on top of things. We've never mentioned it. Its so unimportant, its just swings and roundabouts after so many years. It saddens me to hear she continues to be so petty, small-minded and mean spirited, but she is full of bitterness and unresolved anger and that is sad for her.. but also, sad for you. You are doing marvellously in the face of her continuing uncharitable unkindness. I really notice that of alot of the male posters here I read, their wives are so unflinchingly unrepetant and mean... I admire how you all cope so well with that.
Hope the date works out, but I can tell you are not in a rush to dive in.
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
