As for the X I know he is alive. We speak about the children when need be.
My goodies: My children. My family. My girlfriends I go out with when I don't have the babies.
After 1 year of divorce and 3 years of living on my own. I have given my self permission to feel the butterflies.
thanks again.
Lissie, are you sure he is alive? LOL Remember, breathing and taking up space don't count for being alive! LOL Butterflies huh? Well Well, you will have to tell more about that one! LOL As for me, I am seeing someone, its gotten pretty serious, but I am mindfull of things. I am really trying to be an effective communicator about things. I have been totally open and honest about my past marriage, the failures, the issues, my issues and problems and my willingness to improve as a person. She has also done the same. Who knows where things will end up, but..... LOL I m optimistic! LOL I know, everyone don't have a heart attack! LOL As for the XW, Well everyday that passes is one day closer for her burning in hell! LOL That's the way I look at it nowadays! Sorry, as must of you know, I am not one who has a lot of sympathy toward an MLCer who walks off and leaves her kids. I guess I need to work on that one! LOL
