So now the question is, if I want to save my marriage (and that's a big if right now), does she just need time? Will she ever figure it out and really respond to me?
I can't say. I'm still trying to get my own soul straight.
Keep doing what you're doing...you get good advice here. I know this got kind of long and drawn out by me...I just wanted to make the point that this wasn't an "ordinary" affair IMO, and that the manipulation she went through will have its effects.
Time definitely heals, as it does with everything. Listen to your friends here.
