I don't know really since I've never met either of you. BUT I know that in the beginning for me when this started, it was our son that kept us on a common ground and it was during those time with our son that I was able to make some headway with him. I just think if you and your kids have a good time, it will show on their faces, in their demeanor and eventually, she'll want to see why.
I apologize but I just am not into the family night idea . Tomorrow we discuss property asset division . Her proposal started out by stating she was " abused " for the entire marriage . My attorney laughed as she never brings up the affair but is able to stand by her " story " . I guess she has to otherwise she would have no other valid reason for her actions . I will proceed w/ the criminal charges on 3/24/09 . I realized that the last 3 years or so of our marriage I lost my identitey in catering to her . She once told me she was drawn to me by my cockiness so I might as well get cocky legally .
Then no family night. If the organizer doesn't dig it, no one else will. Are you sure you want move forward with the charges? What would it take for you to drop them?