alien invasion II

[hoosiermama]

I'm very afraid that if H finds out my gas was cut off that I'll lose custody. And that would be worse than freezing to death. She has been with him on really cold nights.

Re: glasses--the custodial parent has to pay the first $xx of medical expenses. So he's not paying for them because he doesn't have to. He is covering insurance, however.

I don't qualify for any assistance, partly because I'm still married technically, but also partly because I make just barely over the limit. There's not really a safety net for this kind of circumstance.

Moving to another state, for one thing, would require his permission. And it will still need to continue here, since it was filed here.

Sorry--perfect storm of non-helpful factors.