Hey kassie, I'm not familiar enough with the guys around here anymore. I use to know several, but they've moved on.

So sorry.

I'd recommend you read some of the newcomer guys threads, see if any of those are similar to yours, then ask the guys opinion on your sitch.

HTH

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.