but right now she doesn't feel that way as she has choosen to hold onto her anger/resentment and not work on the relationship
^ delete, stop reminding her.
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I will always be sorry for how I've hurt her emotionally in the past and I've apologized for that.
^ delete, you have said sorry already. Time to stop reminding her.
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I know that regardless of the path that we head down we will always have a relationship because of our kids.
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I feel we will both need to be able to let go our anger/resentment to make sure we have a relationship where our kids will always feel loved by both parents.
^ Reminding her again about her anger/resentment and telling her she needs to let it go (controlling).
How about this:
"Even though I wont be able to remain friends with you if you choose to leave, I know we will still need to have contact for the sake of the kids. All I ask is that no matter what happens, we treat each other with respect and set a good example for them."
Something like that, may someone else can chime in.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
