Hoosier, as you are still married surely H has to be responsible for some of the bills. Why did he not buy the glasses it's his daughter???? I just don't get it. I get v confused with US laws and how they vary state to state but this is ridiculous. Does he know his d is cold and needs things. Can she not get free medical things ie glasses?,free dinners etc or maybe you don't have these things. I would be so tempted to place a billboard outside my house stating that because my h left me for OW, my d and I are now cold and hungry and in dire straits!!! WITH HIS NAME prominately displayed and his profession. I wish I could do something r had a better idea. I hope you get through to your lawyer soon.
