Thanks, PH. I asked my H to look at the stuff for me. I got a date of Sat from him and told him that I need a concrete date to know and that if not I will get someone else. He said he didn't have plans and can do it and asked that I just remind him saying "You know how forgetful I am". So will see what happens.
Funny I was thinking is it us LBS that worry about being seen as needy or do our WAS like being asked. Not sure. But I do want this to have him think that I am hooked in no way. I tried to counteract that by letting him know if he doesn't come through I will find other means. But I never really know what's right anymore.