Maybe I should be in piecing part 7?

[Hope4us]

Here is description of my situation(it's kind of long). Before you think I must have been stupid you have to realize that this happened over time...and that we were part of an online community kind of like this, as well...and he got to play this game, this pretending to be this charming someone he's not, on everyone, really. On the whole group. But *I* was the favored one. Lucky, lucky me.

http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2006/12/lures-of-online-predator.html

OMG Break. There were so many things in that that W said and did with OM. Did he write that article? Doubt it, but he sure has/had it down. I can remember so many times that after I discovered the A that she would come home p*ssed and run outside and get into an arguement with him and then she'd be down for a few days and then boom, on top of the world.

Some of the things I saw that he TM'd her were straight out of this hand book. Like when my W and I were at Disney together and we were having a good time and he ripped on her because he "couldn't stand the thought of her having a good time with that animal" and then later that night or the next day TM'd her all sorry for how he'd treated her and he couldn't live without her, blah, blah, blah.

So now the question is, if I want to save my marriage (and that's a big if right now), does she just need time? Will she ever figure it out and really respond to me?