Yes, she closes the door with conviction to certain subjects. I probably haven't pushed enough to get her to talk. Once again, I'm being a nice guy. Thanks for the reminder.
My wife and I have never been good at talking to each other about our desires. We both strive to avoid conflict. Not until September 2008 had I never uttered the feared words "we need to talk." Never. We never talked about our marriage.
We've never talked about sex. She won't talk about it. I know very little about her preferences. And we've been together nearly two decades. This situation seems absurd to me.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R
