Hey You, Yes, the dance. I hate it!! But AJM really gave some great advice and wonderful encouragement. I told him today I just need a few days away from him. He's got S for the next three nights after work so I can relax and will only have to see him when he drops S off to me at night. He said Ok to letting me have some breathing room and I think was sort of surprised that I wanted the breathing room. But really, I need it. I have so many more important things to be thinking about right now, not that my marriage isn't important to me, obviously, it is. But I have some serious career decisions to make here and it will involved some hard ball with my game face. I can't be distracted for the rest of the week. How are you doing? I think your weekend was better than mine!