H broke his leg Friday night. Friday night, OW and I were in the ER with him together. That was really nice. She forced her way in and since he wanted her there, guess what. Yeah, I stayed. Dumb me. She leaves. She comes back at 10pm and stays while I am there until 11pm and then she leaves and I am pissed so I leave, too.
Saturday. I go from 8 til 1 in the afternoon. I leave and all his friends show up including her. They stay for awhile and he calls me about 6 or 7 to let me know I can go back. Nice, I know. So I go back for a few hours. No one else shows up. I leave at 10.
Sunday. He has surgery. I am pretty much the only one there until 5pm. I go get daughter and come back. We stay for about 45 mins. We leave to go get her a burrito and I pass the OW on the road going to the hospital. Nice. So we eat and I do a drive by. I don't text him immediately cause I want to calm down long enough to not be a snot. I text him about 45 mins later and said we were gonna stop but OW was there so we are home now. He says "So I can't clay cause OW was here" and I said I am not going to go up there so that she can disrespect me. He says "Like you don't disrespect her?" And at that point I quit texting. Called his mom and she is pissed at him. WTF is he thinking that it's all just kosher??? What planet does he live on???
So no contact last night after that, of course. This morning I took Clay by cause no one else was there and she wanted to. Then H calls me to go pick up his cell phone charger so that he can call and text everyone about how he is hurt, etc...geez he's already bragging, talking about it on facebook. He kept the cell phone on him in the ER so that he could call and text everyone about what had happened. It's just amazing, really. So I miss the phone call this morning. Meeting. And I'm at work. And I'm tired of him putting his friendship with her before our marriage. If he doesn't respect the marriage, then get a friggin divorce already!! No one is stopping him! I've told him I would sign the paperwork already! So I call him when I realize he has called and he says it is already taken care of. I say, oh, okay, well, let me know if you need anything and hang up. I thought we both hung up. It sounded like he hung up. Then he texts me and says, "wth, Melissa"??
I have already decided to tell him if he asks me to take care of him that I would gladly do it, but OW will not be allowed in/around the house. Otherwise, I can't do it. Not my problem. Let him suffer the natural consequences of his actions.
So I didn't text anything back yet.
Puppy, I could really use a good truth dart, or something. I'm too friggin emotional and can't get calm. It's how I always am when I am hurt too much. The ER doesn't bother me. Blood, fine. Car accident, fine, I am good, adrenaline kicks in, I function great. But hurt me emotionally, and I am a friggin....I don't know what. Mush.
HELP!
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
This morning I took Clay by cause no one else was there and she wanted to. Then H calls me to go pick up his cell phone charger so that he can call and text everyone about how he is hurt, etc...geez he's already bragging, talking about it on facebook. He kept the cell phone on him in the ER so that he could call and text everyone about what had happened. It's just amazing, really. So I miss the phone call this morning. Meeting. And I'm at work. And I'm tired of him putting his friendship with her before our marriage. If he doesn't respect the marriage, then get a friggin divorce already!! No one is stopping him! I've told him I would sign the paperwork already! So I call him when I realize he has called and he says it is already taken care of. I say, oh, okay, well, let me know if you need anything and hang up. I thought we both hung up. It sounded like he hung up. Then he texts me and says, "wth, Melissa"??
