Gosh, Hmama! ((((((HM)))))) I wish I could help you and your daughter, but all we have here are words ... and they don't feed you or warm you when it's cold. Is it possible to move to a state where the divorce laws are more favourable? Or, is that even possible?

I'm usually quite a charitable person, but I hope your husband ends up knowing exactly how you feel and worse, and loses everything he has gained since leaving you, while you prosper beyond your wildest dreams (forgive me, Heavenly Father), but it seems that's what someone like your H needs, Hmama.

Here is a warning to young women to never pay for your boyfriend's or husband's education. Put your money aside for yourself. My MIL also helped put her H through medical school, and he cheated on her, left her destitute ... ugh, the story is a long one and a painful one. But, she did survive and thrive eventually.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim