Hey Julia, He did ask me for money. To be honest, I was shocked he even asked. That is out of character for him. Is he possibly joking?? Don't think so, money is not a joking matter for him. I didn't tell him yes or no. I asked him what he needed it for & if he wanted to talk about it this eve. Yeah, I suppose none of my business.
When we were talking last week, he said his mum was asking him to visit. He told her he didn't have any money too. It must have came up with his mum about the loan he took out & paid for her in 2005. His mum never made a payment & never mentioned the loan after. I can't believe my H actually told his mum that she never paid anything nor ever asked about it. That is out of character for him as well. If he wouldn't have taken out the loan back then, he would have been out of debt now.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
