Anniversaries are just days we attach expectations to.
Without the expectations they just become another day.
I think that goes for any holiday or occasion anymore.
It does when your single or a LBS, but try saying that to someone your in a R with and see what they say back.
I get your point.
I on the other hand am the type who would rather get a small token of appreciation sometimes when it isn't a special day. Expectations these days are set way too high. Then again, I'm cheap and don't like anyone spending money on me.