It's better for you if you expect one. And even then it sucks. Look, no not everyone in MLC has an affair. Look, the ammount of posters whos MLC spouse had an affair compared to those that did not...is too high not to plan for the worst.
"My husband/wife would never do that."
Sadly...too many do.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
