I may end up forcing the issue by then. I'm just about done with this type of M. Don't worry... it'll take a little while. No wild decisions coming from this end. But, there's a point where this is just NOT happening anymore. Figure it out, dude.
Hey MB...haven't posted to you much, or in while, but try to follow along as I always felt there was some similarities in our sitches...although I am getting the intimacy and have all along.
"No wild decisions coming from this end. But, there's a point where this is just NOT happening anymore. Figure it out, dude."
Those words really struck a cord with me this morning....last week while sitting with my wife, having a couple of drinks, we ended up in an R talk, in which she told me over the past year I have become her "best friend" for the first time in our 20 year marriage. She also told me she is comfortable...with me and us, and for the first time she can remember, the house feels like "home".
Then she told me she still can't say "I love you"...but loves me and always has...and can't picture us as husband and wife in the future.
So like you, but for different reasons, different circumstances and for me..different goals right now..no wild decisions, but this just ain't happening anymore.
Spent a lot of time waiting for THE rest to come this past year...think now I want TO rest.
Listen to what Mike has been telling you...step back..GAL..if your H is going to come around, let him come to you.
