Hope4us, I swear you could be describing my H. He is a master at lying. He was playing me and the OW at the same time. He of course always told me he wasn't seeing her anymore. I assume he was telling her the same thing. So a combination of lying, manipulation, and smooth talking I think is their recipe for betrayal. It is still beyond me how someone can look you in the eye and lie that easily. Funny thing is when I would lie to protect my source I always felt bad, actually I wouldn't lie I would just tell him that I didn't want to reveal my source. He always made me feel like I was the bad person. How in the world do they make us feel like we have done something wrong?
hi yoyo...I don't know your sitch, but they do this because that's what narcissists do. Google narcissism...
