The wife never totally fest up to the fact that she bought tickiets to see a band in a tiny night club in a city 3.5 hrs. away on a wednesday night, April 8th. She did tell me on Saturday that when she bought the tickets she asked one of her female coworkers, but pretty much new she would not want to go seeing as it is a work night and a long drive. So, she asked Matt to go as well if her female friend declined. She then said she new I would have wanted to go, but she did not want me to go with her because she wants to get to know the band members, drummer in particular. She said that if I were there she would be unlikely to go and talk to the band members because my presence doesn't allow her to be herself. So that's why she had not told me. In addition, she knows how it destroyed me when she told me that she bought tickets and made plans with Matt the first time without telling me.
How do I deal with this?
She I tell her I think it's inappropriate for her to go with him?
She i talk to Matt and tell him I think it's inappropriate?
